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You know it's bad when I log on to my computer, open an older version of the blog and well.. just start writing again here. This OG blog has been my safe space - where I've always been saying things unfiltered. I know for a time I became focused on the sponsorships - it was the real reason I left this blog in the first place - but somehow, going back to this space felt safe.

My blog (girlwhowontsettle BUT on WORDPRESS) was made to only be a good place on the internet. A place where fellow side hustlers, dreamers, and ladies who wont settle (alike) can just go to when they look for advice related to their passions, businesses, and even careers. I promised myself to only make it that (and with no ads). But again, I just find myself here writing to you because this space has been my diary - even before I had an audience to share it with.

I'm not sure if anyone will still be reading this - my last post was 2017 and it's been 3 years - but if you find it. I'm just wondering, how do YOU keep up with the world? Please share some advice because I could really use some right now. 

Apart from that, I guess I'll be writing here now more often, but it will be more on sentiments with everything that's been going on - things I cannot just put into the other blog. Although I've been trying to distract myself by writing content for the other blog. Sometimes, you just gotta let things out. I hope I'm still allowed to write about the mundane things during this community quarantine.

If you're reading this, I do hope and pray you're safe and well and that we make it through this corona virus pandemic. Anything small way I can do to help, let me know please? I'll see if I can. 

Praying for you,
Melissa

(PS chose this OLD picture because I was unintentionally not looking okay so it's candid ok - i'm not outside the house now)
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It's midweek of midsem but I'm still feeling motivated like I'm ready to take on the world.......... what's my secret? Positive thinking and well, a whole lot of Quaker!

Although I'm not exempted from our student struggles, today, I've decided to share with you some tips on how we can all finish the semester, strong!

1. Pack up your energy with QuakerGoodStart!
It's good to start your day with your favorite drink! For me, I start mine with QuakerGoodStart! We cant start on empty stomachs - that's a NO-NO! Plus, we could use the energy to keep us focus on our deliverables for the day!


2. Refocus
Before the madness sinks in, take time to list every thing you need to do. Focus on your goals and what you need to accomplish. It's time you remove things that aren't important anyway.

3. Don't procrastinate
Ahhh, it's easier said than done! Maybe it's time to turn off or steer away from your phone first and start writing your thesis or start working on your projects. Stop saying "I'll do this later since there's time" and get on it! Just imagine all the things you can do after you finish working! ;)

4. Surround yourself with the right people
I think it's very important to surround yourself with people who also want to accomplish their goals - in acads and in life. Have study groups with your friends or ask your professor if there are things you don't understand. Don't be afraid to ask for help!

5. Stay motivated
It's gonna get demotivating at times but it helps when you think positively about things. One thing I learned about life (in general) is it's all about perspective. If you convince yourself you are motivated and ready for anything, then you are!

6. Take breaks with QuakerChewy and QuakerFlavored Oats
It's important to reward yourself with breaks too! I love Quaker Chewy and Quaker Flavored Oats because it not only tastes good but it's healthy too!



7. Get some sleep
Pulling up all nighters all the time are not healthy. Get some rest and sleep! It's important to recharge too. ;)

So that's about it....... follow all these 7 tips and it will be the break before you know it. Good luck!

Got it any more tips to finishing the semester strong? Let me know in the comments below! :)
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Since it's almost a year since I left for Greece, here are some unpublished pictures from the trip. These were a few of those I first took since I landed. You can say they hold my first impressions of the place. I even took the time to take pictures of what I was first eating. (LOL SORRY) but needless to say, Greece is beautiful. Sure there are other European countries, but there will be always be something about Athens that will steal your heart.


Staying in the seat of civilization for more than a month was truly breath taking. And if you know me, I'm such a fan of history. I've always dreamt of living in the 70s and well, during the time of the Greek gods and goddesses. Here are a few snippets of my first impressions of Athens, Greece:


The first thing I ate when I landed was a chicken gyro at Zimari cafe, turns out this place was going to be one of my favorite places. I initially was asking for rice but then they didn't have any rice. Actually, it's rare Greeks eat rice. Pita bread and salad was their staples but it was a great experience. Though I can't remember how I survived the trip without eating rice. 



This was the view from outside our apartment. I was just starting at the window from the bed and I'm just like wow - this is too beautiful. Also, finally - T H I S is what Greece looks like. I've always wondered if they were still living in the old column looking buildings. The buildings were old but were still aesthetic pleasing.



My co-interns and I went out to Syntagma Square, which is the heart of Athens. But if you ask me, it's basically a busy area full of well Greeks and foreigners living the night life. There were many people shopping, eating and hanging out. Maybe it was the heart of modern day Athens because it was such a nice place to walk around.


Another food shot - this time, it's a souvelaki! Safe to say, this is my favorite food from Greece. I always get this 1 EURO souvelakis near our apartment. When I started eating, I couldn't finish a whole piece so my co-interns ended up eating my share. But by the end of the trip, I could eat two souvelakis at one seating! It's good and a must-try when you go to Greece! I always like to pair it with orange juice on the side.


Melissinos is a famous leather sandals maker in Monastiraki, Athens. A lot of celebrities and prominent people have their sandals made here. Most sandals are also priced at 50 EUROS and above. It's handmade cause they measure you're feet - and only for your feet to fit! I heard that Nadine Lustre, a local celebrity, got a pair here too! :) 



You haven't been to Athens if you haven't been to the Acropolis Museum. Pictures inside the museum weren't allowed so this was all I could take - of course, I snuck these pictures. From the museum, you can also see Mount Lycabettus, also known as Lycabettos, Lykabettos / Lykavittos. It's a Cretaceous limestone hill in Athens, Greece at 300 meters (908 feet) above sea level. The hill is a tourist destination and can be ascended by the Lycabettus Funicular, a funicular railway which climbs the hill from a lower terminus at Kolonaki. 





And if you're tired from examining all those ancient-y pieces, you're welcome to chill on the roof top cafe at the museum. Their tea is a great way to cool off. Just beware of the pigeons cause I promise, there's plenty of them and you wouldn't want to get any poop near your drinks.


All photos were taken and edited by me. Please don't use them without my permission. :) Thank you and till the next update!
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It's been a while since I've written something on the blog. I will be honest with you, ever since my hiatus, it's becoming harder to write here. My friends know I'm on a love-hate relationship with blogging. Love because it's a free space for me to document random thoughts and happenings in my life and well, hate because I sometimes question the authenticity of it all. Am I still writing for me or because someone else is reading my stories? *WHEW TOUGH CROWD*

And lately, the latter feeling has taken over most of the time. I will continue to write though. This blog has helped me so much. I've really learned to put my thoughts together - I've learn how to write. Most of classmates think I write so well - contrary to popular belief, I'm still learning but I really appreciate my fellow classmates who think so. Also, it's really hard to be surrounded by those who had experience in the campus journalism scene - I had none. A bit of high school background: I was the student-council / varsity type of girl (yes, I swam before). I was studying Physical sciences so ready to be an engineer someday but that plan didn't work out quite well. No worries though.

Anyways, going back: here's a short life update on things happening right now. I've decided to write them in bullet form because I'm feeling a bit lazy today.

  • I'm moving to Youtube!! (I know I just dropped the "I'm a lazy blogger" move on you and say I'm moving to Youtube - who would have thought?) Kidding aside, yes I am moving. As much as I love writing, I want to challenge myself to create more dynamic content and that includes creating videos. This past semester, I've written and edited a lot of videos and I think it would be a great way to challenge myself more. So if you have the time, please check out my content here! 

  • Another moving post: I finally moved out of the apartment!! After almost 6 years, I'm finally back in Manila living with my family. Although mixed feelings since I know I'm really going to miss having a home back in LB, this really means a lot to me since I'm almost finally graduating. I won't call it now - since it might be jinxed NOOOOOO - but I have a lighter load of subjects for the following sems that will allow be to go home after. Hay, gotta get ready for aldut-ing soon too. Good bye apartment! Thanks for the memories.


  • AIESEC 1617! I'd never thought i'd survive the year taking up my dream role in AIESEC. It's crazy. AIESEC has opened so much opportunities for me. Last year, I took off to Greece to go on exchange and when I came back, I co-lead the entity with these amazing individuals, the Executive Board 1617. I'm never the type to take up a leadership role - heck, I'm pretty much scared of trying new things but the whole experience has taught me so many things I wouldn't be learning in the classroom. With that, this calls for a separate post. For now, I'll leave it to this picture of us. 
  • I'm finally on break! And what have I been doing the past few days? I've been eating, organizing, unpacking my stuff and finally listening to Hamilton, which is my new obsession today. Lin-Manuel Miranda is a genius huhu and of course, I love the original cast. Always been a fan of the 70s but HAMILTON JUST GIVES ME SO MUCH LIFE. I wont spazz here anymore since you've been seeing me spazz all over twitter anyway but I love it. Also kinda regret being late into the scene. I mean their time was 2015 - 2016 and it's 2017. But *I'm not sorry* (sings in Eliza's voice). If you haven't listened to Hamilton, you should! (Picture not mine, btw)
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And that's it for now! It's been really busy and I'm really sorry about that. I have a backlog of posts, hopefully, I can post them by this week. Thank you for always sticking around. :) Till the next update. For now, how's your summer going? Let me know in the comments below!


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One of my frustrations this year was being so invested in an organization while having a boyfriend who wasn't (yep, Jan is a non-AIESECer!) People actually keep asking me bakit hindi siya sumali but through out the year I realize that he didnt have to - 

When elected as LC VP (Local Committee Vice President) for BD (Business Development) last year, I did not have to ask for his support. He already knew it was going to be a busy year - it really was, sorry huhu - but Jan, you were nothing but patient with me. I often cancelled our dates for meetings and when I didn't, I usually still am working but you never stopped surprising me, dating me even if it means just us taking out our usual chinese food and watching some internet-downloaded movie. And even if I almost always sleep on our dates (#Lola), you were okay with it 😴

Every time I got tired of work, you'd knew even without asking. You'd send me funny memes, buy me flowers (every once in a while cause you know I'm not really a big fan) and most importantly GIVE ME FOOD 🐷 It was always you who would cheer me up. Every time I was frustrated, even if you didn't know the full story- you didn't have to. You'd never fail to tell me I'll do well because in your eyes, I always did :(

I thought I needed an AIESECer boyfriend to make sure he knew what I was going through when I went on exchange. Despite the time difference, you made everything easy. You knew what time I was in the school - volunteering and what time I was out. You knew the value of why I loved the exchange and what it meant to me. And okay fine, when I got lost around Athens, ikaw na nga ang nagggoogle maps para sa akin (HAHA natuto ako eventually). It was also you who listened to ALL my stories (and people know grabe ako mahangover paren sa exchange) ✨

I thought I needed an AIESECer boyfriend so that he would write me sugarcubes but you'd often write and leave notes on my notebook. You would even leave notes with food outside my classroom kasi alam mo deretso class ko and alam na alam mong di ako kakain pag full schedule ko.

I thought I'd needed an AIESECer boyfriend to dance the roll calls (it's these weird dances AIESECers do hehe) with me, but you always busted your moves 🙄 (not sure if I approve of this though hmmm HAHA) and danced with me at random times and random places 💃🏻

And I thought I needed an AIESECer boyfriend so that every time I was at a conference, he'd know why I cannot be reached for a weekend (kasi walang signal + too busy to talk) but you surprised me at home. You waited for me at my house in Las Pinas just to see me (sobrang naiyak ako dito kasi I just got home from the conference and I was just telling the other AIESECers na nakakainggit naman magkaAIESEC boyfriend then you show up at my house biglaan???? 😭😭)

I know our relationship isn't the showy one cause we aren't the showy type?? LOL but thank you we both agreed that we weren't going to be one of those.... *yeah* but AFTER A YEAR OF WAITING FOR ME (FROM AIESEC), you deserve all the appreciation in this world 🌎 

Jan, thank you for allowing me to do something I love all while loving me for it! I'll be resting for a while from work (wink wink) but I do promise to make bawi to you.

BUT HEYYY FINAAAAALLLY happy last day of the term and first day of us (again LOL) and 45 months together!!!! 🐝💖

So yeah...... I realized that I didn't need an AIESECer boyfriend, I just need you.

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I'm Melissa

a 20- something Morena from Manila who will work for food (not half kidding). I love getting lost in new places and lost in telling stories. Talk to me about iced coffee, business, side hustles and productivity! I'm obsessed with binders. #HufflePuff

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